10 signs he's a player

1. He cancels your first date. Unless he's truly sick or has a business meeting out of town, your dream date may have been caught up in the moment when he double-booked you.

2. He asks you out for weeknight dates only.

3. He doesn't introduce you to his friends or family.

4. He calls you last minute for dates.  If your dream date calls you the day of, or even the day before a date to get together, don't get excited and change your plans with your girlfriendsto accommodate him. You aren't a priority if you aren't on the calendar at least several days beforehand.

5. He consistently cancels dates at the last minute. If you are getting cancelled on the day of your date more than once, it's a red flag. Don't put up with it.

6. He introduces you as his friend. If you are sleeping with a guy who doesn't call you hisgirlfriend, significant other, or other pet name in public, you're just a friend with benefits.

7. He disappears for days at a time.

8. He's vague and mysterious. While you might think it's sexy to have a little mystery in the relationship, when he's consistently vague about his whereabouts, he's hiding something.

9. He often mentions other women as his business associates. If your guy consistently goes to business mixers in the evening to meet with potential female clients, chances are he's going on a date. He'll likely be referring to you as the same.

10. He refuses to get tested for an STD. Don't buy the line that he's not sleeping with anyone else but you. If you are moving towards an intimate relationship, get tested before the clothes end up on the floor in a night of passion. Practice safe sex, period. Don't have unprotected sex without being tested. It's about respect, romance, and responsibility. The classic player is likely to be having sex with multiple partners without protection.